
Parenting Spotlight:
One Father Dealing with MS Turned Obstacles into
Opportunities
Imagine standing up from a chair and feeling light-headed
as the lights flash on and off for a few moments without a
reason. Daryl Kucera couldn’t explain
his lapse in his normal vision, but didn’t become concerned
until a few weeks later when the lights went out and didn’t
come back on.
"I had no idea what was going on," says Kucera. "I think
I went into shock and I was definitely shaken."
Kucera’s shock turned to sadness and disbelief after
being diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis. According to the
National Multiple Sclerosis Society, a vision problem is the
first symptom of MS for many people.
"I felt I could conquer the world," says Kucera. "When I
heard the diagnosis, my feet were pulled out from under me."
Prior to his diagnosis, Kucera a Certified Personal
Trainer and long-time Youth Fitness Instructor, was pursuing
his dream of conditioning young athletes full-time by
founding Fast Forward, LLC, a fitness company.
Once the wheels of his disease began to spin rapidly and
progress to a point when Kucera was wheel chair bound, he
felt there was no choice but to close his company – his
dream was slowly fading away until he realized that his life
wasn’t over. As a result, he dedicated himself to reopening
Fast Forward and, eventually, walk again.
Located at 14929 Industrial Road, the fitness center has
provided athletic conditioning to over 1000 youth athletes
between the ages of 6 and 18 since 2001. Small Group and
individualized training programs are available to ensure
athletic conditioning goals are met. Seasonal programs for
baseball and hockey allow entire teams the opportunity to
improve their athletic conditioning, enhance their
sport-specific skills, and build team chemistry, which is
critical to team success before and during the season.
"Our programs are designed to enhance the physical,
mental, and emotional health and well-being of all of our
youths," says Kucera. "Our mission is to promote the
development of young adults through athletic achievement."
Creating Hope for Other MS Patients
Kucera can personally attest to the need for
physical fitness to combat the potentially damaging effects
of the condition. Much of his success
dealing with MS has to do with his physical activities. So
in 2003, Kucera approached the MS Clinic of The Nebraska
Medical Center offering his services to other MS patients.
"I have a gym and you have expertise with MS treatment,
let’s join forces," says Kucera.
Consequently, a six-month program of weight resistance
exercise by MS patients began at Fast Forward. The program
was unique because MS patients with all levels of disability
were evaluated for a change in strength and endurance
despite the degree of their original disability. Results
demonstrated that all individuals with MS showed significant
improvement in both strength and endurance. According to the
MS Clinic of The Nebraska Medical Center, the study supports
the use of exercise, specifically to include weight
resistance programs, for all MS patients.
Currently, Fast Forward provides a supervised exercise
and fitness treatment plan designed to address the specific
needs of those living with Multiple Sclerosis. By focusing
on the recovery of strength, balance, coordination, and
mobility, the gym assists participants in regaining control
over their life and their treatment of the disease. The
program is tailored to meet the needs of those with varying
disabilities. Small group and individual training is also
offered.
To date, 115 people afflicted with multiple sclerosis
have attended the program to date. Each month 50-60 attend
the exercise sessions either 2 or 3 times a week.
"Exercise is becoming an essential part of the
symptomatic treatment of MS," says Kucera. "We are happy to
be able to help others dealing with the disease."
Athletes that workout at Fast Forward support Kucera and
his mission by participating in the MS programs. According
to Kucera, many of the children and parents love to help out
in any way they can with MS participants, which is sometimes
just holding people’s arms as they walk.
"I received a call from a mom because she was so
impressed with the impact the programs have made on her
son," says Kucera. "She told me her son came home and said
he will never be tired again after watching the MS
participants struggle with simple physical movements."
Kucera was honored for his work with MS by receiving
Advocate of the Year by Multiple Sclerosis Society in 2004.
"Just because a person was stamped with MS doesn’t mean
it’s the end for them," says Kucera. "I hope that I’m making
a difference with the work I do for young athletes and those
dealing with MS."
The Family Gives Spiritual Strength
"My son took my diagnosis the hardest because we played a
lot of sports together," says Kucera. "He is better now
especially since he has seen how I deal with the disease."
The father of a teenage son, daughter and husband to a
dedicated wife, he believes his diagnosis has had a positive
effect on their family life.
"My kids have learned that the world doesn’t revolve
around them," says Kucera. "They need to pitch in and step
up more to help out around the house."
According to Kucera, the family appreciates the time they
spend together. He also noted that as a parent, he enjoys
the simple act of watching his children during their sports
activities.
"Me and my wife really take the time to not waste a
moment we all spend together because our time together is so
precious," says Kucera. "We don’t have to go anywhere
together, just spend time laughing at the simplest things."
Kucera looks to his future with high expectations. He
plans to expand the services offered at Fast Forward. There
will be pilates and yoga classes available at the gym by
this winter.
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