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The American Dream Comes True for One Local Mom
"I
pledge allegiance to the Flag of the United States of
America, and to the Republic for which it stands, one Nation
under God, indivisible, with liberty and justice for all."
is recited by all Americans with pride and is usually
recited at a very early age. This pledge holds new meaning
to those that are not born in America, but call this country
home.
Born in France, Karine Mentzer, is a world traveler.
Thanks to her father’s career as a chief financial officer
for a large construction company, she has lived in Paris,
Africa, Texas and Omaha.
"I don’t remember it being that hard to move around,"
says Mentzer. "I do remember having difficulty after we
moved to the United States because kids would come over to
play and we couldn’t understand English."
When asked if she misses France, Mentzer, now a mother of
two young boys, married and living in West Omaha, says she
has fond memories of her birth country, but doesn’t feel
French – she’s all American. She still has family there and
entertains the thought of taking her children for family
visits when they are older and can handle the long journey.
"I loved seeing my family in Normandy," says Mentzer. "We
have a close family and they live on beautifully scenic
farmland."
After moving back to Omaha for the last time as a teen,
she decided to call Omaha home. She chose to study interior
design and architecture and after graduation worked for HDR.
There she met her husband and as she laughs – "the rest is
history."
Throughout her lifetime - and now a young
thirty-something - she is taking the plunge and officially
becoming an American citizen. According to Mentzer, she
always felt American and is now ready to make her feelings a
reality.
"I thought about becoming a citizen when I was in
college, but I was living on a super tight budget and it was
too expensive for me at that time," says Mentzer.
After 911, Mentzer was so moved by the tragedy that it
was the push she needed to start the process. Her husband is
American, her two boys are American and she says it was her
turn. After completing a lengthy application and being
finger printed, it was time to study for the test.
"I can’t wait to vote because it is such a privilege,"
says Mentzer. "I am so fascinated by the whole voting
process."
She answered questions such as, what are the colors of
the flag, how many strips are on the flag, who wrote the
Declaration of Independence and a great deal of in-depth
questions about American history.
After answering 140 questions, she is now ready for the
ceremony that completes a long emotional journey. She looks
forward to having her husband and sons present for the
ceremony to honor her love for this country.
"It will be so emotional having my kids watching me and I
get goose bumps when I think about that day," noted Mentzer.
As a result of her experience, she is adamant about
teaching her children tolerance of other people’s
differences and strives to teach them to be happy with who
they are as individuals.
No Girls Allowed – An Entrepreneurial Spirit is Born!
Mentzer is living the American dream. With the support of
a loving family, she has taken her dream one step further by
starting her own internet retail business.
Inherently a positive person, she describes herself as
the type of person that buys a lottery ticket because there
is always a chance that she will be a winner. As a result of
her optimism, she has taken the plunge and started her own –
www.forboysonlynogirlsallowed.com – because, in her
words, "It could be a huge success".
"As a mother of boys, I had a hard time finding cute and
cool clothes and toys for them," says Mentzer. "After
talking with other mother’s of boys, I realized I was not
alone and there is a market for the products I sell."
The site is full of colorful and unique clothing items
that would entice any mom of boys. After entering the site,
moms can purchase humorous shirts that read, "lock up your
daughters" and "what happens in preschool – stays in
preschool." She hasn’t forgotten the girls and incorporated
a section entitled, For the Girls in My Life.
Is there Travel Plans in their Future?
When Mentzer isn’t working on her business and
volunteering for non-profit organizations, she has high
hopes to travel with her family right here in the United
States. Fascinated by meeting new people, she wants to see
different cultures and beautiful sites found all over the
country.
"I plan to take my family on trips to see all of the
amazing sites that this country has to offer," says Mentzer.
"I want them to see clay ovens in Sante Fe and the Grand
Canyon."